Thursday, 31 July 2014

In time..... In due time.





"Love is the most beautiful thing to have, the hardest thing
to earn and most painful thing to lose."

Love is a beautiful thing; it brings the best out of anyone in it. When you are habituated to spending most of your waking moments with someone they become an integral part of your life. Then all of a sudden you cannot last long without thinking about them..... And when that thought passes by you cannot help but smile. It makes you dream endlessly, everything suddenly looks achievable and the most difficult situations feel like a breeze to deal with. That is what being in love feels like.

But when two people who love each other decide not to keep on loving each other, the pain is excruciating. It feels like a million deaths. The ♪Baby don’t worry, about a thing♫ soundtrack suddenly comes to a halt and everything turns to a total disarray. Heartbreak galore..... A dark cloud is cast over you, your heart palpitates to no end, and your eyes tear up every time you think about them..... Very often.

You just want that episode erased from your mind but then you see them in everything you do, in the places you go, in the food you eat, in the clothes you wear, you see them everywhere.

Then you start looking for them.....Even in places you know they would never be. However, you don’t know what you would do if you saw them, you don’t know whether you would walk away or reach out for an embrace. You just don’t know.

You hope that somehow, the numbing pain will soon diminish and time will eventually cleanse all the injustices love has recently committed to you. 
But how long should you grieve for?..... You ask
yourself.
Time is the ultimate healer, and the ultimate killer.

"The only people who think there's a time limit for grief,
have never lost a piece of their heart.... Take your time.... Take all the time you need."


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